Compromise

The Trickiest situations are when you have to decide what to compromise and whom for. Its all relative but still there are as such no set parameters. That according to me is a test of your own self- degree of stubbornness and adapting at the same time!

Would you settle for less and have regrets of lifetime? Or would you rather not settle for less, living in the hopes to achieve what you've desired and may be waste the moments of your life?

A very close friend once made a statement. He liked this particular girl but that girl didnt seem to reciprocate his feelings. He seemed to be truly in love until he said something that shook me to the core. He said-

If she loves me even a bit, I am kind of a guy who would love her back 5 times more than she does to me!

I wasn't in any stand to tell him anything (one lesson of life I've learnt- when someone's in love/obsession, they forget the ethos of friendship). But it has made me give a deep thinking on that what he said

Is his love 'conditional'- based on IF she loves him? What is she doesnt love him? Ok, realistic world would say move on and forget her....but my emotional world says you love her still the same while you learn to move on. This is not sour grapes that because the fox didn't get it, he became a critic.

Learning to 'live with it' is moving on in a true sense. That's what makes us strong!